Daddy's Day

I didn't write this, I found it online. I just thought it was really cute so I wanted to share it.

Her hair was up in a pony tail, her favorite dress tied with a bow.

Today was Daddy's Day at school, and she couldn't wait to go.

But her mommy tried to tell her, that she probably should stay home.

Why the kids might not understand, if she went to school alone.

But she was not afraid; she knew just what to say.

What to tell her classmates of why he wasn't there today.

But still her mother worried, for her to face this day alone.

And that was why once again, she tried to keep her daughter home.

But the little girl went to school, eager to tell them all.

About a dad she never sees, a dad who never calls.

There were daddies along the wall in back, for everyone to meet.

Children were squirming impatiently, anxious in their seats.

One by one the teacher called, a student from the class, to introduce their daddy.

As seconds slowly passed, at last the teacher called her name, every child turned to stare.

Each of them was searching, for a man who wasn't there.

"Where's her daddy at?" she heard a boy call out.

"She probably doesn't have one," another student dared to shout.

And from somewhere near the back, she heard a daddy say,

"Looks like another deadbeat dad, too busy to waste his day.

"The words did not offend her, as she smiled up at her Mom.

And looked back at her teacher, who told her to go on.

And with hands behind her back, slowly she began to speak.

And out from the mouth of a child, came words incredibly unique.

"My Daddy couldn't be here, because he lives so far away.

But I know he wishes he could be, since this is such a special day.

And though you cannot meet him, I wanted you to know.

All about my daddy, and how much he loves me so.

He loved to tell me stories he taught me to ride my bike.

He surprised me with pink roses, and taught me to fly a kite.

We used to share fudge sundaes, and ice cream in a cone.

And though you cannot see him, I'm not standing here alone.

"Cause my daddy's always with me, even though we are apart.

I know because he told me, he'll forever be in my heart. "

With that, her little hand reached up, and lay across her chest.

Feeling her own heartbeat, beneath her favorite dress.

And from somewhere in the crowd of dads, her mother stood in tears.

Proudly watching her daughter, who was wise beyond her years.

For she stood up for the love of a man not in her life.

Doing what was best for her, doing what was right.

And when she dropped her hand back down, staring straight into the crowd,

she finished with a voice so soft, but its message clear and loud.

"I love my daddy very much, he's my shining star.

And if he could, he'd be here, but heaven's just too far!

You see he was a fireman and died just this past year

when airplanes hit the towers and taught Americans to fear.

"But sometimes when I close my eyes, it's like he never went away."

And then she closed her eyes, and saw him there that day.

And to her mother's amazement, she witnessed with surprise,

a room full of daddies and children, all starting to close their eyes.

Who knows what they saw before them, who knows what they felt inside.

Perhaps for merely a second, they saw him at her side.

"I know you're with me Daddy," to the silence she called out.

And what happened next made believers, of those once filled with doubt.

Not one in that room could explain it, for each of their eyes had been closed.

But there on the desk beside her, was a fragrant long-stemmed pink rose.

And a child was blessed, if only for a moment, by the love of her shining bright star.

And given the gift of believing, that heaven is never too far.

Even Teens with Autism Can Learn To Fit In

This is an article I found about an autistic teen who learned to fit in during middle school, and shared her knowledge with other teens facing the same fears. Read the original article here: Teen With Autism Advises Other 'Different' Kids.

Going into middle school is stressful. You have to figure out what everyone is wearing, learn the new school, and make new friends. This is a job for a healthy teen. But what about a teen with autism? This is what Haley Moss had to deal with. At age three, when Haley still hadn't learned to talk, she was taken to the doctor. This is when she was diagnosed with autism. She had a mild case but was still making it hard for her to learn completely normal. She started speaking at age four. A few years later than most children.

Haley had it easier than most children with autism. She had a mild case, and aside from being a little shy, and not eating very much at lunch, she appeared to be pretty normal. On the other hand, many children with autism, never learn to talk. They repeat things over and over again and don't have any knowledge on creating a social life. They can't go to normal schools and attend normal classes. Their whole life has been impaired. As many as one in every 110 children, suffer from autism. These children need Haley's help. They will have the same troubles that Haley did and some will have it worse than her. They need her tips on how to be as normal as possible in their school setting.

Haley, at age 15, wrote a book for exactly this reason. "Middle School: "The Stuff Nobody Tells You About," was written and illustrated by Haley to help other children with autism get through school and not be bullied all the way through. This book is filled with advice for autistic students. She tells of her experiences and gives advice to other teens about how to get through the same things with out so much trouble.

Three of the tips in her book are as follows:

1. Ask for help if you are confused about something

Many autistic children are very detail oriented and miss the big picture. Spend some time determining the theme of a book or the main idea. This often helps to get the mind off of the small details. If you still don't understand, find and adult or sibling to help you through it.

2. Learn about what is 'in' and talk about it

If you don't have any idea about what the fashion trends or technology trends are, it is going to be much harder to have a nice conversation with someone. Even if some of the things don't interest you, learn about them. That way, if someone brings up the topic, you will know what they are talking about, instead of just sitting there and having no clue. The best way to fit in with the crowd in middle school is to be like everyone else. If you are different, people don't like you. Learning the trends is one way to help with this.

3. Trust your parents

You may think someone is your friend, but really, they are just out to make fun of you. This is when a good relationship with you parents comes in handy. Share your secrets with them. They will not tell anyone, where as, someone you tell at school will share it with their friends, and then they share it with their friends, and then they share it with their friends, and before you know it, the whole school knows the secret that was only told to one person.

Also, talk to your parents about things that are told to you at school. They can help you interpret things that you don't understand. Sarcasm, for example. Someone may say something sarcastically and you take it seriously and then they make fun of you for not understanding. You parents can help you with all of this. They are the best ones to talk to. You can trust them and they wouldn't do anything to hurt you.

If you have autism or know someone that does, this may be helpful to you. Read my article, read the original attached above, and lastly, read Haley's book. All of these things can help someone with autism more easily get through middle school.

Same Blue Dye In M&Ms Linked to Reducing Condition Of Spine Injury

This is a article I found that talks about how the blue dye that is used in M&M's and Gatorade can improve conditions of patients with spinal injuries.

Same Blue Dye In M&Ms Linked To Reducing Spine Injury

Doctors in hospitals see all these people with spinal injuries who may never walk or talk again and yet, they have nothing that can even help with the condition. There may be a solution to this problem in the near future.

Scientists found that when they gave the compound, Brilliant Blue G (BBG)- a similar substance to food dye used in sweets and sports drinks - to rats with spinal injuries, they were able to walk again, although with a limp. The only side effect that came about was that the rat temporarily turned blue.

A molecule called P2X7 is what causes the disabilities in patients with spinal injuries. The BBG could prevent the P2X7 from functioning the way it normally would, therefore reducing the severity of the conditions. This means that a rat that would otherwise not be able to walk or make noises would now be able to make noises and walk with a limp. It is not a full cure, but it helps.

As of right now, 85% of patients that are admitted to the hospital with spinal injuries go untreated. The other 15% are being treated with steroids, that may, or may not help their condition. If scientists could determine how to get treatment to those patients, even it if doesn't totally cure the injury, it would be better to be 75% healed than not at all.

In order for the BBG to work to its full potential, it would have to be administered shortly after the accident. This is because if the P2X7 is given time to react, it will take over before the BBG even gets into the body. It would have to be something that is given before the patient gets to the hospital.

Scientists are currently working on putting together an application to be sent to the FDA to get permission to begin testing on humans. The goal is to get a medication that will decrease secondary damage that we would otherwise have to expect and not be able to do anything about.

Contacts Dispensing Medicine to Eyes

This is an article that I found talking about how contact lenses may soon be able to dispense drugs into the human eye.

Contact Lens Can Dispense Drugs To Eyes

So, I was reading this article and thought, what a great idea! I myself, wear contacts, and suffer from dry eyes. When they get really bad, I have to stop wearing my contacts and use eye drops for a while. It would be great if I could wear my contacts, and get the treatment I need to get better at the same time. I hate wearing my glasses out to places, and that just makes the process worse. Being able to wear my contacts even when I have dry eyes would be like a dream come true.

Studies show that more than 59% of glaucoma patients advised to use eye drops don't even when untreated glaucoma can lead to blindness. The times that they do use their eye drops, only 1 to 7 percent of the drop actually gets into the eye, while the rest of it just drips down their cheek or into their eye lashes. This means, that if you actually got all the medicine that you were supposed to get, you would get better 93% faster. If dry eye and glaucoma sufferers could wear contacts to get their treatment, all the medication that they were throwing away because it was running down their cheek would now be helping them. It would be coming right out of the contact lens and going directly into the eye. This would save money and time because you aren't wasting your drops and since you aren't wasting your drops, you don't have to spend as much time driving to the store to refill the prescription.

Drug dispensing contact lenses can be helpful in many ways. They save us from having to use messy eye drops and allow us to continue on normal life without worrying about glasses, or vision that is just not as good.

This experiment has been tried a few times before but has never been a full success. The contacts would either dispense a lot of the drug for a very short period or time, or an amount of the drug that is almost useless in a long period of time. Now, scientists have figured out how to produce the exact amount of the drug at a constant rate and make it last for 30 days or more. This is almost the perfect amount of time because most contact lenses, with the exception of some Acuvue lenses, are 30 day lenses.

As of right now, the testing of the lenses is only as far as a lab dish but animal testing is expected to be happening in just a few months. Scientists hope to be testing on humans in a year or so, but want to have it just right before that happens. They just have to make the lenses in a quality high enough to be used in the human eye.

If you suffer from dry eyes or glaucoma this could be the solution to all of your worries and could make the rest of your life much more fun. No more worrying about where your glasses are, or that you can't see your son or grandson at his first baseball game. All of that will be crystal clear, once again.

Social Media

I was never a big social networking fan. Then, just yesterday, my mom joined my dad with a twitter account, so I decided I wanted to give it a try. Both of my parents also have a Facebook account. Because of this, and a few other reasons, I created a Facebook and a Twitter account for myself. I wanted to join these networks because I thought I was missing out on an experience that was important for me to understand. I never committed to liking either one of them, I just wanted to understand. It is just a different way of communicating with people that I thought might be worth a try.

I have not had my accounts for even a day yet, so I can not yet say which one I like best. I do know that there has been a study to prove that teens don't like twitter as much as Facebook or MySpace for a reason as simple as this: there is not as many customization options on twitter as opposed to Facebook or MySpace. There are also four other reasons that teens don't like twitter. Check out this website to find out more:

Reasons Teens Don't Like Twitter

I could go either way as to say that social networking sites are good or bad for teens (or adults for that matter.) There are reasons that make it a bad place to spend your time. There are also reasons that make it a very useful place. You just have to weigh the pros against the cons to make your decision.

Here is what I think.

I think that if you are cautious of what you are doing and don't do anything stupid, you are fine to be on the site. If not, you have something to worry about. Here is what I say to myself: don't put out any personal information and be careful of what I am saying and who I say it to. That is what keeps me out of trouble.

Now here is a different point of view from someone who might think social networking sites are completely unsafe and a waste of time. They can be very dangerous for many reasons. If you are not careful, people can track you with the slightest bit of information and that can get you into a lot of trouble. Also, it can take up your whole day and turn you into a couch potato. You might spend your whole day on the computer and not have time for anyone or anything else. Some might argue that if you spend too much time on networking sights, you might forget how to speak and get really good at writing and typing!

Now on the other hand, here is the perspective of someone who might think that social networking sights, like Twitter, MySpace, and Facebook have no dangers at all and that they are completely safe. They might say that nobody has any reason to try to do something unsafe on any social networking sight. These are the people who usually end up getting in trouble. They don't have any concern for what they publish, or what other people publish. They just keep digging their whole deeper until suddenly, they can't get out without creating a huge problem. Wether that problem be for themselves or others.

So, take it apon yourself to decide which side you will support. Just be sure that you are aware of all the pros and cons of each position so that you don't end up hurt emotionally or physically.